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Spend any time on the internet, and you’ll soon find a plethora of what you want – be it sites on books, bugs, basketball or breakdancing. For those with sexual preferences outside the ‘norm’, the net can be a great place to find hot websites where you can find exactly what you’re after, and indulge as much as you like without fear or favour. If you’re a guy into guys, you need never be worried again that your sexual predilection precludes you from finding porn, magazines or even company online. Just as pirate or pigeon fanciers can find the website that suits their needs perfectly, gay guys can now feel at home in their own home, surfing the net and finding the exact websites they’re after. But the internet can be a trap for young players, and it can be easy to fall prey to scams and fraud, and soon you’ll find yourself in danger – not only of having your credit card abused online but also physical danger, if you’re not careful. We’ve detailed here some of the great things about the internet and websites that can be found, but also how to stay safe while surfing and playing online.
Let’s start with the bleeding obvious, and one of the most sought-after genres online – gay porn websites. The beauty of finding porn online via websites is that you can do it all in the privacy of your home; you don’t need to visit a physical shopfront and risk being seen, embarrassed, or worse. There’s no awkward moment of approaching the counter in the adult store with your hot gay porn and worrying about the guy behind the desk sniggering or sneering. You can surf for hot gay websites offering porn online, safe in the knowledge that your website history will remain confidential, and no-one will see what you’re seeing on your own computer screen. Some of the hottest gay websites are pornographic in nature, and there’s nothing wrong with a bit of porn, as long as it’s done sensibly and within reason. (If you feel you’re developing an addiction (or someone you know is) then it might be time to seek help – but if you’re watching porn on hot gay websites and it is done healthily, then there’s nothing wrong with that!)
Hot gay porn websites are plentiful, but it is easy to get stuck looking at something that’s, well, less-than-average. If you’re looking for free hot gay pornographic websites there are heaps around, you just have to know where to look, or what to look for. There are plenty of paid gay porn sites, too, but you need to feel comfortable about giving your credit card number to such a site – remember, it is private as it is in your own home, but your credit card company will still see – and therefore know – where you’re spending your money and if you want it to be a real secret, then paying for hot gay porn via your credit card might not be the way to go. Your safest bet is to surf around for a while and spend some time discovering what is out there. If you decide to pay, make sure you don’t sign up for a self-renewing subscription that automatically takes the money from your account at a set time each year (or less). You want to have control over your subscription, so read the fine print. And make sure if you agree to a paid site that you’re not going to get more than you bargained for – such as popup advertising or toolbars, screensavers or mouse cursors that you don’t want.
Something else to bear in mind is that if you’re downloading free porn from a hot gay website, then you’re chewing up your monthly download allocation given to you from your I.S.P. (internet service provider, who you get your internet connection through). If you don’t have a high allowance for downloading, then viewing porn online can run up your download allocation. If finding hot gay websites is your new hobby, then think about switching to a plan with a high download quota, or an unlimited quota. This will prevent you from either having to shell out more money on excess download charges, or be throttled to a dial-up speed once you’ve reached your download quota (which will, in effect, stop your hobby in its tracks until the month is up).
So once you’ve decided on the type of internet plan you want (to avoid either being throttled or incurring excess fees), and you know if you want to pay for website access (and if so, how you want to pay for them) or stick with the free hot gay porn websites, then you’re well on your way!
You can Google your preferences for hot gay websites, but make sure you specify in your search if you’re after free porn – by default, if you leave out the ‘free’ bit, you might find yourself getting only paid porn websites in your results. So ‘free gay porn twinks’ will give you a heap of results for free gay porn featuring twinks.
As an aside, here’s where a great virus protection programme comes in handy – if you’re downloading videos from a hot gay website, or sometimes just entering a website (hot, gay or not), you can leave yourself open to viruses attacking your computer. So make sure your computer is fully protected before you download anything, or click on any suspicious websites. The continual warnings about the spyware programme or virus protection is well worth not having your computer infected, or being left open to attacks by spyware.
If you’re a parent or guardian, you can download or purchase many programmes to prevent any under age children from viewing sites on your computer you might not want them to find. As detailed below, in some areas of your country it can be illegal for people of certain ages to view pornography, and if they find it on your computer you’re not only in trouble too, but imagine the guilt you’d feel after exposing them to something you don’t want them to see.
Now, back to hot gay porn websites: it depends on how easily you get off. Some gay porn websites have their home page as a collection of shots, most of which show hot gay guys fucking and sucking other hot gay guys. Sometimes this can be enough to get things going, or finish off the job at hand – depending on what you want the gay websites for. Usually, you’ll find these photos are a snapshot of what happens in a video, and if you click on the photo then you’ll either be taken to a very short clip (in the case of free porn, usually 12 – 20 seconds, although there are some websites out there that allow you upwards of a minute or more) or another website. This is where it can get a little frustrating – sometimes you’ll just be directed from one website to another and never actually get anywhere, but end up at a site where you need to pay. And you’ll end up with about 28 browsers open and you might find due to pop ups you’ll be forever trying to close them all down again! Other websites offer a trial for a small amount, say, $1 – but to get that free trial you have to enter your credit card details. So again, make sure you know if you want to pay for the websites or not before you sit down in front of your computer. And if you’ve decided not to pay for anything, make sure you don’t find yourself tempted to wander to your wallet and take out your credit card if you find a gay website that is too hot to ignore.
http://www.pride-movies.com/ is a great site where you can find clips up to a minute long. Okay, it’s not exactly a movie marathon, but they are free, and they have some of the hottest gays being fucked, so you can’t complain too much. Along much the same lines, http://gaysincoming.com/ is good for free clips. Of course, these free sites do lead to better paid sites, so it’s worthwhile hunting around. And if they don’t eventually end up at a paid site, they often have links to recommended paid sites (usually because they get some type of commission from your clicks). And you can find clips, videos and pictures on just about any theme you like – old and young guys, twinks, bears, uniform/military, college, bisexual, masturbation scenes, shower scenes, cumshots, glory holes, medical scenes, interracial (Latino, black, Euro, Asian etc), anime, bondage and discipline, sadism, masochism, watersports, outdoor, group sex, hardcore, toys, fetish, oral, jocks, hunks, rape fantasy, fisting, bareback, celebrities and straight boys.
Some gay porn websites tease you a little by letting you glimpse something spectacular, after which you need to enter your credit card as payment to see anything else. These are really not worth it.
And beware the websites that need you to enter a credit card to ‘verify you’re over 18’ – once they have your credit card number, they can do anything with it, whether you like it or not. If this is what you’re finding, you’re better off sticking with the ‘free’ gay websites or just finding a good paid website that you can trust and you feel comfortable with. Of course, if you have gay friends who like gay porn websites too, they might be able to recommend a good website (or websites!) – paid or otherwise. Nothing beats a recommendation from a friend who has the same interests as you, so ask around.
Beware too, the websites that appear to be legal but aren’t (that is, those purporting to have ‘legal-aged’ models but when you arrive at their page the models seem suspiciously young and under age). You don’t want to be caught viewing what might be child porn, no matter how good your intentions are. Also, be careful what the laws are in your local area – they can vary from state to state, and websites that might be completely legal in one part of the country can be definitely illegal in another. The same goes for your age – if you’re under a certain age in some countries it could be illegal for you to view porn (or pay for it). A simple online surfing expedition to find hot gay websites might end up in prison if you’re not careful, so check the laws and regulations in your area before visiting the websites!
Another genre you might be interested in while surfing for hot gay websites is online publications, such as magazines or books. Again, some sites might be free (such as The Electronic Gay Community Magazine, the longest running of its kind, being continuously published since 1988) but there are others that require a subscription to be paid, much like a paper magazine or book publication.
www.instinct.com is a hot gay online magazine, accessed via a website. Here you can read all about the latest happenings in the gay world, including entertainment and current affairs, news and sport. Not to mention, it has some of the hottest cover guys on any of the websites in this genre. Not to be outdone, the younger generation have their own mag at www.qrmag.com - and it definitely has something for the out and proud youngster. There are, of course, gay magazine websites pertaining to specific areas so have a hunt around and see if there is a local magazine with its own website for you to peruse online. If you’re a gay or lesbian Christian you’re not left out either, with their own online magazine in the form of www.whosoever.org
You can order gay books online, through websites such as www.amazon.com and then searching for ‘gay’ publications, and then you simply order them online (with a credit card) and they ship them out to you. It’s not really private as the books leave from a huge warehouse and are shipped via a courier company or the local post, so if you’re ordering anything a little naughty, bear this in mind. For a comprehensive listing of book sellers that stock and sometimes ship gay literature, http://www.bookwire.com/index/Gay-and-Lesbian-bookseller.html is a must-visit. Updated regularly, BookWire will help you find a book seller that may even have rare and out-of-print books, all gay and lesbian in nature.
Some of you may have heard of e-books – these are basically a digital form of printed books that you can purchase and download, to read on your iPod, or simply leave on your computer to read at your leisure. Imagine travelling to work on the train and reading hot gay literature downloaded from some of the best gay book websites, and never losing your page again! Beware when downloading from websites, make sure your virus and spyware protection is up to date, so you don’t get more than just the e-book being downloaded onto your hard drive!
http://www.kennydima.com/ has a collection of e-books you can download, including the beautiful story of two boys who fall in love. http://unique.logophilos.net/ is a hot site full of gay literature, some of it free, most of it really cheap. The best thing about e-books is that because there are hardly any overheads (printing costs, publishers etc) they are usually pretty cheap and all profits go to the writers. And usually, they are great as the writers don’t have the attitude that highly-paid best-seller writers who are contracted to major publishing houses have. http://www.gay-ebooks.com.au/ is another hot gay e-book site, where all the publications are free. It’s Australian, too, so even better! A website with plenty of erotic and downright pornographic stories is http://www.asexstories.com/sex-stories.html Although the website is peppered with ads and the stories can be somewhat amateur, they are free, so that’s something.
If it’s company you’re after, again, the internet is chock-full of places you can meet other hot gays like yourself. Websites abound where you can either pay a fee to access a website in order to meet other gay guys, or do it all for free. Bear in mind, the free websites will bombard you with advertising – they have to make money somewhere – and so it might be worthwhile investing in a reputable paid online dating website service and avoid annoying pop-ups or banner ads while you’re trying to find a date. Also, some dating websites advertise ‘free’ membership to try and get the membership numbers up – and once you’ve joined you’ll find there’s you, the owner and three of his best mates who belong to the site, and no-one else. Admittedly, nothing is lost as you’ve not outlaid any money, but it can be an annoying waste of time. Perhaps a paid site, even though you’re handing over money, is a better choice. Make sure you select a reputable dating website, and one that has been around for a long time. This will help guarantee that they aren’t going to take your membership fees and run off with them! Other paid sites sometimes offer a free trial period, so you can play around on the websites before you have to fork out any money – if you don’t like it, you don’t pay. If you do like it, then by all means join up! And some paid sites actually say it is free to join – but then you can’t do anything until you upgrade to a paid membership. It’s like being locked out of a candy store; you can look all you like from the outside (just like every other shopper) but to get inside you need to pay.
Online dating through gay websites is just like any other dating websites that exist to help people meet each other. There are safety issues to address, and you need to be aware of them and go into dating via websites with your eyes open.
When picking a nic, or a handle, or a username (depending on what your websites call it) you need to be honest, and keep in mind that’s usually the first thing a potential hot gay date will see of you. So something like ‘Fuckmyass69’ won’t necessarily attract the attention you’re after – or maybe it will, but make sure you play it safe! Similarly, ‘shyguybigdick’ might tell people the type of person you are, but it might be a little too much information on a gay dating website!
If you’re going to use a picture on your profile, make it a good one – current, clear and a good likeness of you. The photo of you in college with long blonde locks flowing down your back and framing your stunning abs might be you, but the real you might be 47, losing their hair and a little on the tubby side. The photo of you in college won’t attract the kind of person you’ll want to be attracted to you now.
Make it plain why you’re on the gay dating websites. If you just want to play around online and never meet, say so. If you want a three-way, make it known. If you want to settle down with a life partner and the white picket fence, make it clear – this will avoid any potential embarrassment and heartache later on, when you find out the gay guy you met through dating websites is not after the same thing you are. It’ll also save you wasting time with people who aren’t your perfect match, for whatever you’re after.
Next, when you want to approach a gay guy on one of the websites you’ve chosen to meet someone, make sure you don’t reveal everything in your first chat session. Hot conversation is great, but inviting them to your home late at night is asking for trouble. Take things slow, until you find out if your new gay online friend is all they say they are – after all, their nic ‘sensitive_and_shaved’ might be a complete fabrication. You’ll only put yourself in a position of knowing for sure if you talk to them online via the websites, before moving to a phone conversation. Giving your potential gay date the PIN and passwords to your bank accounts might be a bit premature, as is giving out your home phone number and address to some gay guy you just met online.
Now, we’re going to confuse you! Be honest. By this, we mean don’t lie when dealing with gay guys on websites – don’t tell a potential gay date that you’re six foot one if you’re five foot seven. If you’re hairy and balding, tell them – trying to pass yourself off as a clean-waxed, full-head-of-hair Adonis won’t work for too long once you decide to meet each other in real life. This is different to telling them your life story and giving them your house key. Be prudent in the information you give them, but anything you do tell them, make sure it’s the truth. Of course, if you never plan to meet and you’ve made it clear that your websites’ exploits are simply for email and chat fun only, then you can be anyone you want to be. If dirty emails is what you want, there’s nothing wrong with that – as long as you’re up front and honest. But if you’ve put yourself down for a relationship, then being honest up front will set the pace and also prevent embarrassment at a later date. And, you wouldn’t want to be lied to either, would you?
If you’ve decided to move from chatting via the websites to a real life phone call, then onto a real life date, again – take precautions. Make sure you meet somewhere populated and preferably, in the daytime. Consider a lunch or brunch date at a café in town (not necessarily close to your home) and be certain you’re not being followed home afterwards. Arrange a phone call from a trusted friend to come in during the date, preferably a friend you’ve told you’re going on the date, so if things are going badly you have an ‘out’. And don’t feel pressured into anything you don’t want – we’re not just talking about hot sex, but even getting into their car or going back to their place. Gay guys are not immune to the dangers straight people face, so always be careful!
Some of the hot gay dating websites can be found easily. Of course, many of the dating websites that exist deal with all walks of life, and stating your preference is part of the membership process (for example, are you a ‘guy seeking guy’, ‘woman seeking man’, ‘woman seeking friendship’) so your specific needs aren’t addressed. You’re lumped in with all the other possible combinations available. So in this respect, gay dating websites might be a better choice. You know all the other members on the websites will be gay, looking for other gay guys.
Be sure to know that the websites you’re considering are local to you, if you plan on meeting your potential dates. There’s no point finding the man of your dreams on a gay dating website if he lives halfway around the world and neither of you want to move to be with the other! Although, many dating websites have websites within them for certain areas, or at least they have the facility to meet people in your area.
Some gay websites, like the aptly-named www.gay.com , have several sections so you can not only meet other gays in your area, but find out what is going on in your area and check the latest news pertaining to the gay world. This brings us to another aspect, that of forums and chat rooms, and online communities, that can serve to bring gay guys closer together for support, friendship and more. But this will be addressed later! Back to gay dating websites.
www.gayfriendfinder.com is a great website for gays wishing to seek anything from friendship to a relationship or just casual sex. Like many other websites where you can meet other people, this one has a webcam facility so you needn’t worry if the gay guy you’re talking to is all they say they are. Like the potential photo debacle, the worrisome aspect of how someone looks can be avoided as you’re looking at ‘29_and_hot’ – and you can tell if they are in fact 29, and hot. This might sound very superficial, but if you’re after hot gay sex then knowing what the guy looks like is important – and you can tell a lot about a person when you see them speaking, not just typing words in a chat box. If you’re after a long-term relationship, then seeing them ‘face-to-face’ is also important to see if there’s a connection.
Some hot gay websites have blogs, so you can read the exploits of other gay guys (and if you’re a member, create your own blog to share your exploits with the world). And many websites offer groups you can join – if you have a hobby or fetish that you want to indulge in, there’s bound to be a group on one of the many websites available. Other websites have their own online magazines, where you can submit stories, take part in polls or ask questions and have them answered by others like you.
The online world has made the real world smaller. People are now only a click away, when not that long ago phone calls to other parts of the world were expensive and not always available. Prior to that, people communicated via letters (remember them?). In some respects, the shrinking of the world is not such a good thing. But for people who find themselves in a minority, the fact that others just like them are a small matter of simply turning on their pc is a huge relief.
For the gay community, the internet is a boon. In some parts of the world gay men (and lesbians) are put to death, as homosexuality is a crime. In other parts of the world their ‘devious’ acts are tolerated, but the people involved find themselves the targets of discrimination and violence. In yet other areas, homosexuality is embraced, and laws are being passed every day to enable gay people to have the same rights as straights. But even in these countries, gays are still subjected to hate crimes. So the fact that gays can communicate with other gays online, through websites, has meant they have a source of support where before there was none. A young gay guy at school now has the opportunity to get advice and encouragement from others, simply at the end of an internet connection. Websites that offer comfort and a friend to gay people can be found easily, and the person can go from victim to victor with the help of people they might never meet. If they feel isolated and alone at school, at work, in their own home or with their family and friends, then a whole new world opens for them when they open their browser. Suddenly, a gay person has people who understand – and, like the gay dating websites, they have a place they can ask questions, read stories (and maybe submit their own) and generally be part of a larger entity that they can’t find in their own real life. www.planetout.com is one such place, a gathering of gays (and lesbians) where you are welcomed because of the one thing that ostracises you from anywhere else. Here you can find news and events, current affairs and entertainment happenings. You can get advice on anything from fitness to families and everything in between.
www.gaywired.com have a great selection of current affairs and news articles, with everything from politics to sport covered in good detail. Lifestyle, health and business are also dealt with, as is an accommodation section where you can find roommates for your house or apartment. It’s the only site where you’ll find the names Lindsey Lohan and Barack Obama next to each other!
One of the websites dedicated to gay youth is www.queerfuture.com Here you’ll find many of the things found on the previously mentioned websites, but leaning more to a younger angle. It’s great for the younger generation who have enough troubles without adding their homosexuality to it.
Hot gay websites are everywhere, and depending on what your needs and wants are, you’re sure to find something online to suit your exact requirements. Whether it be a hot gay porn website, where you can source pictures or videos in any theme you like – and for whatever needs you desire – or simply to find company online or in the real world, websites can be found at the click of a button.
As we have talked about here, care needs to be taken when visiting websites. If you’re searching for hot gay porn websites, then you need to decide if you are going to stick with paid websites, of if you’re happy to pay for gay porn websites. If you are going to pay, make sure you’re protected by reading the fine print and making sure you’re not signing up for something you don’t want. Then you need to ensure you have adequate spyware and virus protection, and a net nanny programme if you are likely to have children using your computer. Do you have enough download allocation to support your viewing habits? And are you aware of the laws in your part of the world?
If you’re looking for online books and magazines, the same warnings apply for purchasing e-books and the like with your credit card. But remember you can find free e-books you can download (but again, beware of viruses and spyware). There’s no need to pay for all your publications, as some online magazine websites are free, and you can keep up to date with all the latest happenings – as well as be part of a larger community.
Online dating websites are another type of hot gay websites you can find. Be careful when online dating, and take precautions every step of the way – from signing up and paying for membership to choosing your username and photo. Be careful who you chat to and what you say, and when you finally decide to meet, play it safe and don’t feel pressured to do anything you’re not comfortable with. Having safe fun is what it’s all about!
After all this negativity, though, the internet and its many websites can be a blessing to a population of gay people who feel isolated from those closest to them, simply because they are gay. There are so many online gay communities that run their own websites, and it is easy to be part of them and feel welcomed and supported in your lifestyle. With the world getting smaller and smaller, being with people you feel at home with might not necessarily mean sharing the lounge with someone. It can mean talking to someone you’ve never met, who is thousands of miles away, but who shares your world view and therefore, a piece of your life. This has to mean that the internet is a great thing!
